Always give value

You need to always give her something of value for her to connect with you. If there is nothing of value you have to provide, chances are she isn’t going to give a damn. We’re not in a fairy tale where where she had some kind of emotion flowing through her that appeared like love-at-first-sight that she is going to follow through. That’s bullshit. That never happens. The one thing I learnt from the PUA game is that she needs to be convinced of something I can do for her that she can’t easily ( and that she would benefit a lot from having ). For this I need to be extremely confident in what I’m offering, and that I’m very good at it. That’s a bold statement. It only works out when I’m truly good at it.