Operate from abundance
Inspired from “Write from abundance” from David perell, this idea makes sense in several areas
In writing, if you write from abundance, you have several notes and insights to base you writing on and not spend hours on researching
In jobs if you have enough job opportunities to apply and interview at, you won’t be too tense about not screwing up in one, which might just make you more confident
The same applies to dating - when you have enough options you won’t try to be someone you’re not to “impress your date”